Writing an Advance DirectivePreparing an Advance DirectiveGetting startedDo not wait for your doctor to bring up the subject of an
advance directive. To help yourself develop a clear
idea of your wishes, think about the kinds of medical treatments you would or
would not want in different situations. See the
checklist for writing an advance directive to help
guide you through some of the things you may want to consider. Involve your family, your
health care agent, and your doctor in this process so
they become familiar with what you want. If a situation arises that you did not
anticipate, your family, health care agent, and doctor will have a better idea
of how you might like to handle it. For more information on thinking about what medical treatments
you want, see: Documenting your wishesThere are four important steps in preparing an advance
directive: - Get the right forms for your state. You can
get forms from:
- A doctor's office, hospital, law office,
state or local office for the aging, senior center, or nursing
home.
- A nonprofit organization called Caring Connections at
www.caringinfo.org. Its Web site has free forms for every state. Or you can
call the help line at 1-800-658-8898.
- A nonprofit organization
called Aging With Dignity at www.agingwithdignity.org. This organization offers
a form called Five Wishes that can be used in many states. Five Wishes is easy
to understand and combines a living will and power of attorney into one form.
It also has you fill out things like how you want people to treat you and what
you want your loved ones to know. Visit the Web site to see if you can use Five
Wishes in your state or to order a form for a small fee. You can also order
Five Wishes by calling 1-888-594-7437.
- Choose someone to be your health care agent.
For more information, see the topic
Choosing a Health Care Agent.
- Complete the
forms and have them notarized or witnessed as your state requires. When filling
out these forms, it may be helpful to organize your thoughts by using a
checklist for writing an advance directive.
- Give copies of your advance directive to your doctor, your
family, and your health care agent. Keep the original document in a safe place,
but do not keep it in a safe deposit box unless others have access to it. On
each copy of the advance directive, write the location of the original
form.
You can change your advance directive at any time by completing and
distributing new forms. Do not just cross out or add new information unless it
is simply a change of address or phone number. Be sure to discuss the changes
that you have made with your health professional and family members.
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